So, how to start a conversation with a girl or a woman? In general, guys have no idea how to start it, and it does not take an expert to figure out how. Then, why it seems so difficult? Most guys have to struggle to find a way to start a conversation, and it can feel like walking to uncharted territory, which is not very comforting. You may have probably felt the anxiety of wanting to talk but unsure how to get things started. Either we come on way too confident, or we are so nervous that we talk ourselves out of it entirely. But on the contrary, it is not as difficult as we think. This article will help you learn some effective ways to connect and remain in touch with them.
Approach Her
Yes, of course. You need to make the first move. It might seem obvious, but to start a face-to-face conversation, you have to get near. Try to make some eye contact as you approach. It signals your interest and let her know that a conversation you are about to have is intentional. Eye contact also reveals whether she is open to talking. It is also important to think about how you place yourself. You may stand or sit at a comfortable distance and face her, and always show her she has your attention and that you value hers too. It sets the tone for a relaxed conversation and makes you appear confident without being cocky. It seems basic, but a simple hello goes a long way.
Opinion Opener
Many guys think that figuring out what to say is the toughest part of the process, whereas you already know many things to talk about. Honestly, you will need no magic or romantic words. Just talk about the same stuff everybody likes talking about. Although many girls/women are fond of being appreciated by their appearance, in some instances, this could be misinterpret as your sexual interest, which may scare them off, thinking that you might be trying to take advantage of them. To start a conversation, it is better to use an indirect approach by applying an “opened and ended” question, meaning the woman cannot simply answer yes or no, allowing you to tell an interesting story. Then, when you realized that the girl/woman is a normal person, you will feel much more comfortable talking to her.
Be Yourself
Girls/women can distinguish when a guy is being real or just putting up a show. And they prefer only the real one. Being true to yourself will provide more meaningful connections and get to know more people you admired. Also, you will have a lot of fun when you are relaxed and true to yourself. Then you will notice that you get out of your head and let the conversation flow. Never fail to tell her that you enjoy talking and getting to know her. Once you felt a good connection to her, you can ask for her phone number.